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Think Globally, Act Locally is More Important Now

Those of you who follow me know that I have recently ceased making posts urging large-scale reform. The reasons for that are fairly simple, but they involve a psychological hurdle to get over.

I have been communicating with James Howard Kunstler, John Michael Greer, and David Holmgren, all of whom I have interviewed, about a Wise Action Plan. The goal was for us to agree on this Plan and then publicly pronounce it in an effort to get some sensible action on peak oil and climate change. Initially, I urged a response that included a revitalization of rail, large-scale wind or solar farms, and other actions that require the federal government to take a strong leadership role.

While the others generally agreed such actions would be a good idea, especially if they have been started 20 or more years ago, two of the three thought they were a waste of time. They had two reasons for this:

  1. It’s too late. We needed to be getting off oil while we still had a surplus. Now that we’ve hit peak oil, diverting any oil to build solar panels means there is less for cars or crops.
  2. They ain’t gonna. What politician is going to do that, barring an emergency situation? (Emergency is here defined as rioting, fuel rationing, or other severe measures.)

To be fair to our politicians, it’s hard to get elected telling people their lifestyle is going to change drastically, including many of them giving up their cars. The problem is partly cultural; we want what we want, and we’re going to keep electing politicians who give it to us until that is no longer possible.

And to be brutally honest, most of us have bought into the idea of unending growth and improvement, that the market will find solutions to concerns like oil depletion, and that if it were really that bad, somebody would do something.

At that point, we will be well into the emergency.

It has been difficult for me to give up on the idea of leadership from above. I ran federally as a Green Party of Canada candidate last go-round, but wouldn’t do it again. Even in the fantastic unlikelihood that the Greens got a majority next election, they could not do what needs to be done. Still too many people will resist change, and this resistance will be encouraged and financed – by vested interests.

Think Globally, Act Locally

As a result, I’ve gone local. Leadership is going to have to come from the grassroots, from us, from those who understand the reality and are willing to take some action. I believe that every village, town, city, and region should create a Transition Initiative to get off oil.

This is acting locally, and it is vitally important for your survival. Local resilience is ‘in,’ and for good reason. When oil prices go up, imports of everything – including food – are going to get more expensive and harder to get. If you’re already shopping at the farmer’s market, for example, you have helped support a local farmer who will now support you as options in the supermarkets get scarcer and pricier.

This is my new Wise Action Plan:

  1. Start or join a Transition Initiative in your area.
  2. Reskill.
  3. Develop personal self-reliance, which includes everything from starting a garden to insulating your house.

If we’re lucky and good, these local movements will take off, multiply like viruses, and infect the planet. These local movements will bond together and require their governments to do the right thing – to protect us. They will do this not by lobbying or influence-peddling, but by sheer strength of numbers.

Working, working, working…

Apologies for recent infrequent posting. I’ve been working mainly on two things:

  1. That “Get a free house idea” mentioned in a previous post. I may have an opportunity to be a developer/builder, which would get me that mortgage-free solar house.
  2. The Way Home book and presentation. The presentation is in the works for April at the University of Victoria, and New Society Publishers (many of which books should be on your reading list) wants to see the manuscript for the book.

These two things have been consuming much of my time! I will be back soon; first article up will likely be on why what was previously considered a middle class lifestyle is now not possible for most people.

Brian

Suggestions for Unattached Men IV: Wussiness, sex, masculinity, etc

Note: All of the topics below and many more will be greatly expanded upon in the soon-to-be-released ebooks:

  • Suggestions for Unattached Men
  • On Becoming a Man

To be released as a set.

There are three previous articles in this set. If you liked this one, you’ll probably also want to read:

  1. Suggestions for Unattached Men
  2. Suggestions for Unattached Men II – Getting Lots of Dates and Flirting
  3. Suggestions for Unattached Men III – First dates

Wussiness

Do NOT turn into a wuss on the first or any subsequent date, or even once married. (That is one important thing I have learned so far about marriage.)

The prime example of wuss behaviour? Not having an opinion. Women hate when a man says, “I don’t know, what do you want to do?” They hate it. You will lose major points, meaning the woman’s attraction to you will go down. In fact, women are not keen on any expression that amounts to “I dunno.” How often did John Wayne say that? Never. If he didn’t know, he planned to find out or he didn’t care – and he had a good reason for not caring. If you don’t know who John Wayne was, think about strong males. At no point does a real man say “I dunno.” Women look for confidence and ambition; “I dunno” expresses neither. Continue reading →

Suggestions for Unattached Men III – First dates

I can’t take you past dating, as I am on my third marriage and am working hard to figure out how to do that properly. I have a high level of confidence that should this marriage end I can go out and get plenty of dates, and it is on that basis that I provide this advice. I’m a pretty slow learner sometimes, but once I get something, I’ve got it. I’ve figured out the dating game, and very much hope that I have now learned enough about long-term relationships that all future dates are with my wife.

If you read my previous post, Suggestions for Unattached Men II – Getting Lots of Dates and Flirting, you should be in a position to get dates. Some of them won’t be actual dates, because you’ll just be out having fun with a woman, but you are evaluating whether you want it to turn into a date, or whether subsequent outings will be dates.

At this point, I need to make a distinction, and so do you. Divide women into two groups: women you want to have sex with and think you could have a relationship with and women you only want to have sex with. If you’re not thinking sexually about a woman, then perhaps you’re not really interested in her. Either that, or you have an idealised idea of a “pure” relationship and need to get over that or you’ll mess it up. Continue reading →